Thursday, April 22, 2010

Expanding Our Focus in Marriages

This blog is for married couples and couples that have a desire to join together as one...
In this world of ______ fill in the blank with the word fits best for how you see life in 2010. Don't take your spouse for granted. Marriages have been forced to take the backseat to jobs; hobbies; video games; internet relationships; friends; associates etc. However, many people question why their marriages are strained. Unless you are in an Arraigned Marriage, you made the commitment by choice. Therefore, it should be first and foremost. Honor and Respect your spouse. Family demands and expectations will become easier. As I understand the bible, the vision and plan that the Creator has for marriage is for the union to operate "Two become One". In that regard, properity, joy and success would be guaranteed. Stay attuned to your spouses desires and needs. Expand your focus on things that contibrute to the marital relationship not outside distractions. Add variety and permit flexibility when given the opportunity to grow together in new areas. It feels so good to have that Special Someone delight in giving you the desires of your heart and receiving the blessings from the Creator for following the straight and narrow path.

Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Did you know that you are a Genius?

Everyone won't understand your Genius. Oftentimes, when we think of a genius, we picture Einstein. He word genius means having the highest degree of intellectual capacity. It also means one who possesses talent, imagination, creative gifts, aptitude, wisdom, astuteness and the list goes on according to Webster.

If we grasp the meaning, then we understand we see genius' everyday. We see it in young girls who create intricate designs weaving strands of hair together. We see it in those folks self-taught on how to design web pages. We see it in how a writer can twist a metaphor or flip a verb to make you see the world a different way. And although its not to be glamorized, we see it in the person who practices 101 economics; increasing his business by turning the money over gained from selling poison, to buy more product. Imagine the positive outcomes, if someone took the time to point out his genius and redirect it in a way that won't land him in jail or in a grave.

The word holds power. Just to acknowledge yourself as a genius makes you stick your chest out a little more. To know that a test designed to weigh intelligence, really holds no weight at all because your real genius is GOD determined, makes you hold your head a little higher. To know you bring something to this planet that know one else ever did, makes you want to get up and create some more. It some how makes you feel a little more responsible for the gifts you have and how they are shared.

Transitions may lead us to doubt our genius, but we shouldn't. We must understand that growth warrants transitions. We have to understand that as geniuses the plan was whispered in our ear upon birth, for no one else to hear. We were not promised fortune or fame, we were just whispered the plan. Our ultimate responsibility is to remember our genius so we can share it and pass it on.

In the Meantime Be Good To YOU!

Tattianna (AKAGEM)

Monday, September 14, 2009

Thankfulness

I wonder how many people take the time to stop and appreciate their blessings. Make time to meditate, just take at least five minutes in the morning; afternoon; evening and at night. That's just 20 minutes a day to be Thankful for what you have right now!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Fulfillment in Life

Many times people are satisfied, but not fulfilled. When one is fulfilled there is an ultimate feeling of unspeakable joy!!! Don't settle for just being satisfied. Strive to achieve fulfillment in all of your goals.

Tattiana (AKAGEM)